Saturday, April 18, 2009
Haiz
Recently i felt that i have realli lost all faith on MEN, n oso life.
Last nite, a fren of mine told me something that made me harder to believe MEN.
She is a married woman wif 2 kids, but she's onli 30yrs old. She gave up her youth, time, career, frens n family to b with her current husband... She told me lately, she is starting to hate her husband (her husband is the type dat tend to shout at her over small matters)
So she said she tink she dun love her husband anymore.
Well... back to the story she told me.
Her husband is a gamer too, chinese game. N he have an ingame dear as well. But his ingame dear doesnt know he's a married man.
Well... he told my fren (his wife) that it's onli a game n he's jz using her(his ingame dear) for his game's benefits.
But to make it seems real, he will chat wif her on the phone for hours/day n yet he insist to his wife, it's jz game.
Recently, his wife heard the ringtone he assign for his so call ingame dear... "wo hen ai ni...bla bla bla"
So she starting to tink maybe her husband's relationships wif the girl isnt so simple after all (the girl always sms him things like "I love u, lao gong")
But wat made my fren in dilemma is, the girl will b coming KL on May n insist my fren's husband to accompany her for a week.
When my fren asked her husband y cant u jz break up wif her, he said "he still nid her"
So my fren's husband told my fren "dun luan luan xiang, i will jz accompany her, i wont have sex wif her"
LOL, which cat wont eat fish especially if the fishes is being served in silver plate in front of him? *bitter laugh*
So my fren asked me wat she shud so... shud she jz ignore all this n believe her husband jz using the girl n continue being her "tai tai" life or shud she ask for divorce.
Haiz... how am i supposed to advise her since im not good in relationships myself?
But 1 thing im sure is... im disgusted... very very disgusted wif MEN. Im not les n i wont ever turn into les but still... im very dissapointed wif MEN...
