Monday, May 4, 2009
Unfair
2day is the day my fren's husband goin out to meet the girl.
She jz called me up n tell me dat she felt funny packing her husband's belonging bcoz her husband is goin to stay overnite wif the girl. She even bought a box of condoms for him but he scold her n said that he wont b having sex wif the girl.
But she secretly put into his bag when she packed his things.
She told me she's not feeling any jealousy but she felt anger. Dam anger for not asking for divorce, dam angry to her husband n herself. She wish her husband will not come home.
But while she is telling me this, she broke down n cried.
Haiz... im starting to hate MEN
How could they treat us women like this? Why dun they jz divorce us if they found some1 better for themself outside?
Y r they so selfish. They onli tink that their childs cannot live in a broken family but is it fair for us women to endure such things jz so that our childs have both parents?
I dun tink so...
If my husband is like this, i rather he divorce me b4 goin to the other woman. I can still take care of my childs as there is lots of single parent childrens.
Haiz... i felt the pain n anger n anguish of my fren... How i wish things will turn out differently.
Maybe it's time she learn to stand on her own 2 feet, go out n rediscover the world.
She told me her husband will not let her have her 2 childs if they divorce. It's a hard decision to make but i wish she can harden her heart n take the steps she have to if she realli cant stand it anymore.
Is it correct of me to advise her for a divorce or shud i tell her to jz keep quiet? I dunno... when im in the same shoes, i wont know wat to do either. But i know the inner me would wat to rage it out n get a divorce no matter how hard my life will b to re-start my life.
I wish her... all the best...
Take care my dearest fren...
